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Bedtime Routine & Hygiene

Mom reading bedtime stories to her son

Has bedtime become the highest-stress transition of the day? Sleep deprivation is not just exhausting - it acts as a primary driver of daytime emotional dysregulation and severe parental burnout.

From Chaos to Calm
At Monarch House, we believe that you belong. It’s why we treat every family as a complete and unique unit. What does your child’s specific environment look like? Feel like? Sound like? Are there consistent stages and open communication? 

There is a science to sleep. Leave that to us. Our role is to translate complex neurological/biological sleep challenges into a repeatable, predictable and flexible framework for your family.

Powered by Monarch House

All Monarch House essential programs are powered by the interdisciplinary expertise of Monarch House’s Board-Certified Behaviour Analysts® (BCBAs) and occupational therapists.

We translate complex behavioural science into a practical, supportive program to tackle immediate family challenges - one success at a time.

Program Format

The core program consists of 12 hours of total in-person or virtual sessions, which you can schedule in one of two ways based on your family’s needs:

  • Standard Schedule: 1 session per week for 12 weeks.
  • Intensive Schedule: 2 sessions per week for 6 weeks (other intensive options are available).

Pricing

The complete standard 12-session Monarch Essentials program costs $1,860.

We can’t overstate the importance of getting regular, uninterrupted sleep, which sets your entire family up for success.

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Our Clinical Approach to Sleep Regulation

The 90-Minute Down-Regulation Buffer: 7:00 PM (For an 8:30 PM Bedtime).
Think of it as a countdown clock. 90 minutes before lights-out, we’re winding down. No more high-energy play, tablets, or electronics. It’s time to switch to a calmer mode.

Permanent Visual Schedule.
Forget this term: “Five more minutes”. That’s an abstract concept that causes intense transition anxiety. We’ll build your family a permanent visual schedule (physical icons, digital tokens, etc.) that transforms the evening into a concrete, predictable roadmap - shifting your role from an exhausting taskmaster to a supportive guide.

The 4-Point Bedroom Sensory Check
We’ll review and adapt the bedroom environment to match your child's precise sensory profile. Do we need blackout curtains, white noise, or no noise? Is it too hot or cold? Everything matters.

Be Consistent - Be Aligned
It only makes sense that if you’re going to start a new program for something as important as sleep, you need to be 100% consistent. No weekends off. No ‘do it tomorrow’. We’ll coach the entire household to get with the program and build a family rhythm that works.

Frequently Asked Questions

How does it work?

Every Monarch Essentials program is a focused, 12-session clinical stream led one-on-one by a Board Certified Behaviour Analyst (BCBA) or Registered Behaviour Analyst (RBA). We break each 60-minute session into five distinct segments:

  • Check-In (10 mins): We review home practice, progress, and any daily factors affecting your child.
  • Caregiver Coaching (20 mins): Your clinician demonstrates specific strategies and guides you through practicing them.
  • Direct Skill Work (20 mins): Focused, hands-on clinical intervention directly with your child.
  • Caregiver Debrief (10 mins): We model key strategies, connect them to your home routine, and answer your questions.
  • Data & Planning (10 mins): We record progress data and give you updated home practice tools before you leave.

Because we use a Total Communication approach, we honour all modalities - whether your child uses speech, picture symbols, signs, or a digital speech app.

Why 12 sessions?

Essentials programs are intentionally engineered as short-term, high-impact streams rather than open-ended therapy. Twelve sessions provide enough structured practice to achieve measurable breakthroughs on targeted skills (like requesting items or expressing refusal) while keeping the commitment manageable and empowering families without long waitlists.

How do I get my child into a session?

Getting started is a straightforward, three-step process:

    1. Intake & Referral Review: Reach out to our intake team. We gather background details, review any existing reports (such as Speech-Language Pathology or Diagnostic assessments), and confirm that Essentials is the right clinical fit for your goals.
    2. Tier Placement & Goal Setting: Your clinician conducts an initial baseline assessment in Session 1 to confirm your child's tier placement (Tier 1: Foundational, Tier 2: Building, or Tier 3: Expanding) and sets 1–2 specific SMART goals.
    3. Schedule Selection: You choose between the Standard (1x/week) or Intensive (2x/week) format based on availability and clinic openings, and your 12-session block is locked in.

What else do I need to know before the sessions begin?

  • Active Caregiver Participation is Required: Because 30 minutes of every session are dedicated to coaching and debriefing, a parent or primary caregiver must attend every in-person or virtual session. The program’s success relies on generalizing clinical skills into your daily home routines.
  • Sequential Focus: Essentials programs run sequentially, not concurrently. To ensure your child isn't overwhelmed, they will focus on one stream (such as Functional Communication) at a time rather than enrolling in multiple Essentials modules simultaneously.
  • Inter-Disciplinary Alignment: If your child already works with an outside Speech-Language Pathologist (SLP) or Occupational Therapist (OT), our clinicians coordinate directly with them to align goals rather than duplicating efforts. If no SLP is involved, an internal referral is initiated at intake for early-tier communication programs.

How do we handle a severe bedtime meltdown?

A bedtime meltdown typically indicates a transition problem (moving through the stages). It’s important to maintain the visual schedule’s boundaries. We don’t skip anything for the sake of ‘convenience,’ as that inadvertently reinforces resistance and destabilizes the routine.

What if my child stays in bed but constantly paces, talks, or fidgets?

This indicates that the physical body has not finished winding down. We typically introduce activities to burn it off - without getting anyone overly excited.

Can we relax the schedule on Friday and Saturday nights?

Clinically, no. Abandoning the routine on weekends prevents the brain from building the repetitions required to solidify habits. Dedicating 100% consistency for just 2 to 3 weeks creates long-term, independent self-regulation.

From the Family Bulletin Board:
Real Breakthroughs

Here is how families are resting easier after graduating from our Bedtime Essentials program:

“Our house is finally at peace.”
The Monarch team helped us get our daughter Chloe to stop seeing bedtime as a punishment and to treat it as a predictable habit. For the first time in years, my husband and I have our evenings back, and Chloe wakes up rested and happier to start her day.

Nadia & David L., Mississauga, ON

 

“We learned how to protect bedtime as a whole family.”
We were trapped in a cycle where our son, Ethan, would refuse to stay in bed because he could hear his older brothers playing downstairs. He had massive FOMO and felt excluded. Monarch taught us how to align our entire household to protect his sleep. Ethan’s anxiety dropped instantly because he felt safe and included in our family’s evening rhythm.

Jason K., Toronto, ON

 

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